Intimate Sandbar Wedding in Hawaii: Katie + Joe

Hawaii Sandbar Wedding

Together Katie + Joe have traveled to many amazing destinations, so it’s not at all surprising to hear that their wedding took place in a gorgeous place, totally on par with their other epic adventures! Joe proposed to Katie in Lanikai, Hawaii on the pillbox trail at sunrise. Later that day, they celebrated their engagement by sailing out to the sandbar with their family…and they loved that experience so much that they wanted to figure out a way to get married out there! (Hear a bit more about how picking this location was actually a risky move a little further down in the post when K + J share their favorite moment!)

This is truly one of the coolest spots we’ve seen for a wedding + their gorgeous images by Geoff Duncan make it all seem surreal! Katie said, We wanted the day to feel like our guests were on an adventure with us… not just at our wedding ceremony. And that, friends, it’s a pretty great way to look at things – especially for a destination wedding!

Hawaii Sandbar Wedding

Hawaii Sandbar Wedding

hawaii groom

sailor dog

bikini flower girl

Hawaii Sandbar Wedding

Hawaii Sandbar Wedding

We love how it looks like everyone was having such a great time! (And a pretty sweet ceremony arrival – by yacht – to the sandbar out in the middle of Kāne‘ohe Bay!)

Hawaii Sandbar Wedding

Hawaii Sandbar Wedding

Hawaii Sandbar Wedding

Hawaii Sandbar Wedding

The pretty peach bouquets + flower crowns were by Picket Fence Florist.

Hawaii Sandbar Wedding

Hawaii Sandbar Wedding

Hawaii Sandbar Wedding

Hawaii Sandbar Wedding

Our Favorite Memory From The Wedding

There were so many, but our vows were really special - the sandbar ceremony was a huge risk with weather, tides, etc... we were actually cautioned against it. When we were finally out there with all of our love ones standing up for us (in only knee deep water) in such a spectacular place - it really felt like we were right where we were supposed to be.

Hawaii Sandbar Wedding

Hawaii Sandbar Wedding

Hawaii Sandbar Wedding

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bikini flower girl

hawaii bridesmaids

Don’t you LOVE Katie’s relaxed bridal look? It definitely wouldn’t have made any sense to wear a stuffy dress in the middle of the ocean! Her ceremony skirt was from BHLDN, which she paired with a crop top by Alexis Lissette Top from Revolve. (Underneath she wore a blue bathing suit from Still & Sea!) Oh, and her bridesmaids wore the sweetest beach dresses by Tula Rosa from Revolve.

Hawaii Sandbar Wedding

Hawaii Sandbar Wedding

Hawaii Sandbar Wedding

Hawaii Sandbar Wedding

Hawaii Sandbar Wedding

Hawaii Sandbar Wedding

Hawaii Sandbar Wedding

Hawaii Sandbar Wedding

Hawaii Sandbar Wedding

Hawaii Sandbar Wedding

Later that evening, everyone slipped on their finest threads (Katie in BHLDN + Jeff in an awesome custom suit by My Suit in NYC) and met back at the beach house in Kailua for a big dinner + party!

Hawaii Sandbar Wedding

Hawaii Sandbar Wedding

Hawaii Sandbar Wedding

chalkboard globe

map polaroid board

drink menu

dinner menu board

Katie says, Since Joe is in the wedding industry (check out his work – Joe Simon Films!), we were attempting to have the least ‘wedding’ like wedding that we could since he’s been to a few (hundred)… to us that meant the least amount of vendors/strangers as possible. We were lucky enough to have our talented friends and family help us out with most of the wedding, which created an even more personal day… their contributions and getting to hang with them while prepping meant the world to us.

They flew in their friend Greg, Chef at Grain & Gristle in Portland, Oregon to prepare a delicious five course meal using all local ingredients.

hawaii reception

hawaii reception

hawaii reception

hawaii reception

hawaii reception

And we’re ending with a super sweet film Joe captured + compiled of all the travels + adventures he + Katie have had together! It’s such a fun + gorgeous video and is sure to give you a major case of wanderlust!

Our Advice To Those Planning Now

Trust your gut and do what you want... traditions be damned, it's your day and it will be the most memorable if you plan a day that you want even if everyone tells you you're nuts! And plan, plan, plan... but don't sweat the small stuff if some things don't work out the way you imagined.

photography: Geoff Duncan // venue: Ceremony at Kane’ohe Bay Sandbar and Reception at Place in Paradise in Kailua, Hawaii // event design: bride and groom, sister, mom + a whole lot of Pinterest // event planner: Lisa Schultz // florals + hairpieces: Picket Fence Florist // wedding dress attire: Ceremony skirt from BHLDN, Ceremony crop top was Alexis Lissette Top from Revolve // bathing suits: Still & Sea in Austin // reception dress: BHLDN // shoes: Betsy Johnson from BHLDN // bridesmaid dresses: Tula Rosa from Revolve, Erin Featherston from Nordstrom // hair + makeup: Jennifer Trtek of Dahlface Brows in Portland, OR and hair by one of my bridesmaids, Marie Bass // groom suit: Custom made by My Suit in NYC // videography: Joe Simon Films // reception signage: Aron Hoag // catering: Gregory Smith of Grain & Gristle in Portland, OR // champagne + shave ice: Aloha On The Rocks // rentals: Pacific Party Rentals // officiant: Brother in Law, Evan Wilson & Friend, Aaron Bass // music: Friend Mat Thompson + Spotify playlist

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