This Queer Wedding Stylist Redefined Aisle Style For Her Chic High-Fashion Ceremony

Q: What do you get when a wedding fashion stylist ties the knot? A: A wedding aisle turned high-fashion runway!

Kati Kons is a queer wedding fashion stylist who’s rewriting the rule book for wedding attire. So when it was her time to walk down the aisle with her partner Hannah Schilling, she was ready with a lookbook of chic, unexpected bridal attire that broke tradition in the best way.

From ethereal ruffle capes to hot pink wedding heels, this celebration was a masterclass in statement fashion for modern brides. But for this couple, their wedding looks were so much more than dreamy aisle style — they were sartorial reflections of their personalities, identities, and one-of-a-kind love story.

Keep scrolling for all the editorial fashion inspo from this stylish celebration, plus the most intimate micro wedding ceremony!

A Sartorial Love Story

Here at GWS, we always say: pick one or two parts of your wedding to really lean into. Maybe you’re a diehard foodie, or an after-party animal. For Kati and Hannah, their wedding day was all about the fashion. By focusing their energy on this shared love of style and keeping the rest intentionally simple, they planned a wedding that felt authentically them.

That meant trading a traditional wedding venue for something more low-key: their own apartment!

Without the stress of venue hunting and vendor shopping, they could focus on what really mattered: their aisle style. “As a wedding fashion stylist, Kati was all-hands-on-deck when it came time to style the wedding outfits, of course,” they told us.

For Kati’s look, she worked with Ofelia Otello to create a custom version of one of the designer’s ready-to-wear gowns. She reimagined the original design as a layered bubble skirt, which she styled with a chantilly lace bustier top, also customized by the designer.

And let’s not forget those earrings! Both brides wore earrings by Eileen Pappas.

The finishing touch? A whimsical ivory caplet that Kati stumbled upon secondhand.

Speaking of thrifted treasures, can we have some commotion for these wedding heels?! Both of the brides’ shoes were pre-loved: Kati’s metallic magenta pumps are from John Fluevog Shoes, while Hannah’s chartreuse slingback heels are vintage Prada.

Home Is Where The Heart Is

Dreaming of a wedding ceremony that feels uniquely you? There’s nothing more personal and intimate than saying “I do” in your living room!

For Kati and Hannah’s ceremony, the vibes were intimate, relaxed, and totally them. “I think we were our own biggest inspirations for the day. We put a lot of our everyday lives and interests into the day,” the couple told us. “Hannah also wanted our venue (our apartment) to feel very home-like to everyone. She designed the space and decorated it over time and it felt so cozy and warm on the day of.”

If you love the idea of a pared-back celebration that’s all about you and your love, check out our roundup of unique small wedding ideas here.

Our Musical Choices

Processional
"Like Real People Do" - Hozier
Recessional
"Never Have Enough" - Carnival Youth
First Dance
"Into My Arms" - Nick Cave and the Bad Seeds

“We had a small budget and prioritized our attire above many other things. We regret none of it,” says Kati. “Feeling that good and looking that good with the person you love? That is an unmatched feeling. Go get that.”

Editorial wedding photos from the comfort of your living room? Say no more! We love the high-fashion vibes of this draped ceremony backdrop, which also doubled as the perfect portrait spot for the newlyweds.

Get more inspo for your statement backdrop with our favorite unique backdrop ideas!

A moment of appreciation for Hannah’s stunning wedding day look! She wore a gorgeous beaded gown straight off the runways of Anna October‘s 2025 collection, complete with a matching beaded bridal cape from the same designer. Obsessed!

Feeling influenced? We’re sharing our fave bridal capes + capelets here.

And the style inspo just keeps on coming! Kati and Hannah’s wedding party created their own runway of chic mismatched bridesmaid dresses (and a bridesmaid jumpsuit!) in rich rainbow hues. 🌈

The most important finishing touch to the couple’s looks: Their elegant gold wedding bands from Amanda Hagerman Jewelry.

A Romantic Rainbow Photoshoot

Time for a field trip! After their ceremony, the couple and their “I do” crew hit the streets of Washington, D.C. for an editorial photoshoot with the city as their backdrop.

A new setting called for some new accessories. Aka, some iconic bridal sunglasses!

Our Favorite Memory

Hannah: "Being pulled away at dinner for 6 minutes to take photos on the street that had rainbow crosswalks in our second outfits and getting yelled 'congratulations' at by everyone who passed us on the street."

Kati: "Our first look. I was so nervous before then and shaky and didn't know what to do with myself but seeing Hannah relieved all my stress and made me feel so much better. We then walked in together right after which also felt really good to us."

Alongside photographer Lensy Michelle, content creator Heim Zeigler Pictures captured the newlyweds (and their iconic outfits) in all their glory. If you’re thinking about going the content creator route for your big day, don’t miss our expert-approved guide for choosing the right one!

This photoshoot is sparking major joy! As Kati and Hannah told us, they struggled to find wedding attire that felt true to them — a challenge many queer people face.

“We didn’t see ourselves in typical wedding dress campaigns or tuxedo shops, and there isn’t a third option,” they said. That’s why it was so important for them to curate bridal looks that they both loved, a skill Kati is perfecting as a queer wedding stylist.

Kati calls herself a “scrappy” stylist, using knowledge from a former information retrieval job to find diamonds among the chaos (and heternormativity) of online shopping. One such treasure: this silk organza purse from Room Shop!

“But the real story behind the attire is that countless queer folks getting married who have come before us wore things that made them feel like they were wearing someone else’s clothes, because there are no resources to get them to feel like themselves in formal attire,” Kati said.

But with these outfits, she was able to change all that.

Our Advice

Do it together! And do it for you. Theres no need to stick to “tradition” for tradition’s sake — especially if it doesn’t feel like it’s you. It’s a party not a performance. Pick budget priorities based upon your needs and wants not based upon norms.

Consider this your sign to ditch the “rulebook” and choose the wedding attire that feels like you, whether that’s a two piece wedding dress, a sequin tuxedo, or a pair of green wedding shoes!

Reservation For Two

It wouldn’t be a fashion lover’s wedding without an impossibly chic second look (or two)! For their restaurant reception, Kati found this sleek wedding suit for Hannah…

…and this dazzling beaded evening dress for herself!

It’s giving Old Hollywood glamour, but with a cool and playful modern touch.

Because one outfit is just never enough, check out more of our favorite after-party dresses here — plus the best chic wedding suits!

The couple toasted their “just married” status with dinner at their favorite restaurant, surrounded by their nearest and dearest. A perfect end to a perfect day!

Congratulations Kati and Hannah on your intimate, fashion-fueled wedding day. Best wishes from all of us here at GWS! 🤍 🌈

Looking for more inspo for your aisle style? Check out all of our bridal fashion guides here!

Wedding Vendors

Photography: Lensy Michelle Photography // Event Design: DETTA, A Design Studio // Wedding Planner: Fancy Farm Fling // Wedding Dress: 1. Anna October, designer // Wedding Dress: 2. Ofelia Otello, designer // Catering: Floriana's // styling: Kati Kons // wedding content creator: Heim Zeigler Pictures // live artist: Brittany Branson // earrings: Eileen Pappas

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  • Hannah McKennett is the Features Writer at Green Wedding Shoes, covering fashion, beauty, and wedding trends. A graduate of Emerson College, she brings professional writing experience from the Improper Bostonian magazine and international publication...

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