Fall Rustic Ranch Wedding: Jennifer + Luke

bride and groom

Luke is a professional bull rider – yep, a real cowboy! – so there were lots of cowboy hats in attendance for Jennifer + Luke’s fall wedding, but the overall vibe for the day was much more elegant with a rustic theme of pinecones, feathers, antlers and pretty white + green florals. Since they’ve spent nearly every birthday + holiday weekend at the quaint little log cabins at Big Cedar Lodge in Missouri, it was the only place they could imagine getting married. Taking most of their inspiration for the wedding from the resort, they threw a casual + rustic, but also elegant wedding.

As it was a destination wedding for almost everyone attending, and many of their friends + family hadn’t met each other yet, they decided to scrap the traditional rehearsal dinner and instead invite all their guests to a casual Welcome Dinner. From Jennifer, “It was a great icebreaker for our guests and also really fun for us – we got to spend time with everyone before the craziness of our wedding day.

Big thanks to Love is a Big Deal for the photos and congrats to Jennifer + Luke!

wooded invitation

wooden signs


giant name letters

first look

first look

feather boutonniere

bride and groom



bride and groom


Our Musical Choices

Processional: All I Want Is You – Vitamin String Quartet

Recessional: You Make My Dreams – Hall & Oates

First Dance: That's How Strong My Love Is – Otis Redding



Our Favorite Memory From The Wedding

Finally "seeing" our vows!

As soon as we got engaged, we agreed that we wanted to write our own vows. We would have a entire year to reflect about our relationship and craft these perfect, poetic vows – easy, right? Cut to days before the wedding & we were still struggling to finalize them. After a couple glasses of wine one night, I jokingly said that I'd have a much easier time writing his vows than mine - we both laughed & then realized it was perfect for us. We each wrote vows for the other to say & then sealed them in an envelope, not to be opened until the ceremony.

It turned out to be the most amazing moment of our entire wedding – I had no idea what I was about to say to this man, in front of all of our friends & family. It added a level of excitement and nervous anticipation that reminded me of our first date! And of course, they were absolutely perfect... heartfelt, funny - and a perfect window into the great little quirks of our relationship. Our guests loved the surprise element as well – they said it made the ceremony unique and fun for them to watch.


bride and groom

bride and groom


feather vases

antler centerpieces

pine cone place setting

pine cone place setting

first dance

deer cake topper

sparkler exit


Jennifer + Luke sent their guests off with personalized bottles of moonshine and plenty of memories! Congrats to the sweet couple!

Our Advice To Those Planning Now

Make the ceremony your own. We decided to write our own vows, but also wanted to say the traditional vows that our grandparents said. So we did both. Our pastor was kind enough to let us tweak most elements of the ceremony to make it feel more personal.

Don't underestimate the importance of a Day-Of Coordinator. Even if you assign the job to a trustworthy friend or relative, make sure someone is taking care of all the loose ends and last minute glitches so you can relax and enjoy yourself. No matter how well you've planned, a few problems will always pop up!

Hide! Steal away for a quick, private moment with your new husband right after the ceremony. It's so overwhelming and emotional to realize you're really married! Take a moment to let it all sink in, without an audience.

photography: Love is a Big Deal // venue name: Big Cedar Lodge // wedding dress: Lazaro // bridesmaid dresses: Monique Lhuillier // hair stylist: Jared Cluck, Studio 417 // makeup artist: Melissa Britt // groom attire: Black by Vera Wang // paper goods: Tupy Boutique // catering: Big Cedar Lodge // cake: Big Cedar Lodge // music: Pearl