Los Angeles Barn Wedding: Jamie + Ian

graf barn bride and groom

The minute Jamie + Ian walked into the Graf Barn in Oxnard, California, they knew they found their perfect wedding location. From the one-of-a-kind antiques to the farm animals to the gorgeous barn for dinner it was an ideal spot for their wedding. Since the venue had an overall rustic feel, they played off that for their decor elements. Jamie hand crafted the wedding favors, banners, candle holders and frames amongst other details while Ian demonstrated his passion for home brewing by whipping up seven different hand crafted beer varieties! A laid back, fun and romantic evening with their closest friends. Congrats to Jamie + Ian and thanks to Katrina Louise for the photos!

barn invitations

handwritten note

graf barn bride

graf barn wedding

graf barn wedding

Jamie: The thing that sticks out the most in my mind was the moment I locked eyes with Ian. I somehow held it together the entire day but minutes before I walked down the aisle I began to feel nervous. The second I saw him all of those feelings went away and I was able to calm down and take in the moment. I will never forget that smile on his face, by far the biggest smile I have ever seen.

Ian: Our first dance together as husband and wife had a huge impact on me. Other than seeing Jamie walk towards me in the ceremony, I had never experienced such a powerful rush of ultimate happiness and contentedness in my life. That was our moment frozen in time where nothing else mattered except for each other.

graf barn wedding

graf barn wedding

billy ball boutonniere

ring bearer bow tie and suspenders

navy blue bridesmaid dresses

Processional: Today - Joshua Radin

Recessional: All I Want Is You - Tristan Prettyman

First Dance: You Are The Best Thing - Ray LaMontagne (Live from The Artist Den)

graf barn bride and groom

graf barn bride and groom

graf barn bride and groom

graf barn bride and groom

baby chicks wedding

handkerchief name cards

handkerchief name cards

mason jar wedding

graf bar wedding

brown sack table numbers

graf barn rustic wedding

graf barn rustic wedding

graf barn rustic wedding

Find a location that you both love and suits your personalities. Having that foundation to build off of helps in the planning process and gives you assurance that no matter what, it will be a beautiful day without having to worry about the little details. If you find yourself getting stressed or frustrated, put everything aside for the night and pick up where you leave off the next day.

Ian's advice to the guys would be to not be afraid to get involved with the planning and decision making with your fiance. She will appreciate it and it makes the whole experience much more rewarding and fun.

photography: Katrina Louise // venue: Graf Barn in Oxnard, CA – for inquires please contact tableofgrace.graf@gmail.com // floral design: Greenwich Floral // wedding dress: La Sposa // hairpieces: clip, vintage broach veil from Pebbles Bridal // shoes: Seychelles // hair: Serendipity Salon // makeup: Vanessa Mejia // invitations + paper goods: The Vintage Alley // catering and dessert: Laina Graf (family friend) // music: Elegant Event Entertainment // signs: Shabby Shoe Signs

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  1. Amazing post,pictures are realy cool. Teresa J.

  2. that poofy dress, I just LOVE it!!! They look so happy :)

  3. A barn in LA? No way! Okay.. I didn’t plan for that to rhyme.. I LOVE her poofy dress! Gorgeous photos.

  4. Love all the details! Loving the relaxed rustic feel to the wedding. Beautiful.

  5. okiesss, we are just so hooked on your everyday posts! : ) we heart this wedding so much! <3

  6. Thanks for the feature Jen! Jamie and Ian were a pleasure to work with and I just adore how much fun they had sharing their love with their friends and family!

  7. You did such a amazing job of Puting this together!! You totally captured how the day felt!! Best day of our lives and such a honor to be on the blog that I looked to for inspiration. For all the brides planning enjoy this time because it will be over before you know it.

  8. the shot of the bride laughing coming through the doorway is stunning, beautiful photographs Katrina

  9. Absolutely love this venue space in Oxnard! The floral and stationary definitely captured the entire theme of the wedding. From the roses and yellow buttons to the natural elements in the stationary and decor, they’ve captured a natural, organic element to their barn wedding.

  10. Beautiful wedding! Stunning bride! Love everything!

  11. goat!!! ARGH! i love this sooo much!!! <3

  12. Savannah Gonzales on:

    LOVE LOVE LOVE yalls wedding! absolutely beautiful, I love all the details.

    May I ask where you found all your matching cups? I’m trying to find some in bulk to buy.. :)


  13. First off, thats video was GORGEOUS! your wedding looked amazing!!! second, i was wondering how i would get in contact with this venue to have my wedding?

  14. Does anyone have any idea on the price of the venue? I emailed in but still have not heard back!


  15. These shots are absolutely gorgeous!! I love the colors, setting and all the interesting, creative concepts. I agree with the floral comments, totally made the theme. Well done…


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