The Not Wedding

TheNotWeding_Wichita

By now I’m sure most of you have heard of The Not Wedding, but in case you aren’t familiar with it yet, it’s a super rad alternative to the traditional bridal show in the form of a big, fake wedding! The “wedding guests” are brides-and-grooms-to-be and the event gives them a chance to be immersed in an inspiring setting and really experience wedding vendors in action. The Not Wedding’s latest event took place in Wichita and featured a moody, jewel-tone color palette, rich, dramatic textiles and bold + unconventional bridal attire. Here are some highlights…

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wedding ceremony with flowers hanging from ceiling

black wedding dress

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photos above from Millie B Photography

red bouquet

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photos above by Darrin Hackney Photography

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photo above by Heartland Photography

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If you are a wedding vendor who is interested in showcasing your talents at an upcoming Not Wedding event, hop on over to their website for more info and to apply. And stay up to date with all things Not Wedding by following them on Facebook!

vendor list for the Wichita event

venue: Abode // entertainment: Accent Mobile Music // stationery: Adalee’s Paper Boutique, Chykalophia Group, P.ink Creative // jewelry: Amy Lea Jewelry // catering: Blue Moon CaterersCiaoJava Villa // linens: Bowman and Company // wedding cakes: Buckingham Cakes // dance lessons: Care to Dance? Latin & Ballroom Studio // hair styling: Charisma Salon // desserts: Cocoa Dolce Artisan Chocolates //  photography: Darrin Hackney Photography, Heartland Photography, Millie B Photography // calligraphy: Emilime Designs //  event rentals: Event Elements // day-of coordination + event design: Events by Ashley // sparkling wine: Ferrari Wine // hotel: Hotel at Old Town // wedding dress + wedding party attire: I Do Bridal + Tux // floral + event design: Magnolia Floral Studio, Stems Floral Shop, Swatch Studio // makeup artistry: Makeup By Iris // candle favors: Milk + Honey Candles // videography: Nick Miller Films // furniture rentals: Social Manor // DIY elements: Something Turquoise // photobooth: Tapsnap // travel: The Chic Travelista // rehearsal dinner: The Loft at 420 // bartending services: Xclusive Bartending

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Fall Woodland Wedding Inspiration

Fall Tartan Inspiration

Completely inspired by the rich color palette of fall, a talented group of Chicago wedding vendors, led by Ashley from Ashley D Photography and Carlene from Naturally Yours Events, conceptualized + designed a gorgeous styled autumn elopement. Set amid the soon-to-change trees of a woodsy, lakeside parcel, the team painted the landscape with some of fall’s most notable details. Think tartan, tweed, and moody burgundy hues. I’m really loving the fun handmade elements incorporated into this shoot, like the gold branch candelabra decorating the sweetheart table and the pretty antique lace ceremony backdrop. And the beautiful, vibrant florals by Field & Florist seen throughout are just so stunning. Lots of great ideas for those of you considering a fall wedding!

Fall Tartan invitation

Fall Tartan Inspiration

berry boutonniere


Such a great bouquet, right?! Love the touches of berries + fern!

Fall Tartain bouquet

Fall Tartan Inspiration

Fall Tartan Inspiration

Fall Tartan Inspiration

gold candlesticks


For the table, Field & Florist went with a cluster of vintage tulip vases filled with lush florals, ferns, plum peppers, + blush berries. They’re a perfect compliment to the tartan textiles.

Fall Tartan Inspiration

Fall Tartan Inspiration

Fall Tartan Inspiration


And let’s talk about this awesome flower necklace for a sec! Comprised of dahlias + fern, it added such a pretty dose of texture to the bride’s ensemble. We love the idea of exchanging a flower necklace for your bouquet during the reception if you’d rather not lug something around all night! :)

Fall Tartan Bride

berry floral necklace

s'mores bar

Fall Tartan Desserts


A gourmet s’mores bar is such a fun idea – and the beautiful cake by Elysia Root Cakes stayed right on theme with an elegant gold wood-grain design on the bottom tier. So, so pretty!

Fall Tartan Inspiration

Fall Tartan Cake

Fall Tartan Inspiration


Huge thanks to the below creatives for sharing their talents with us today!

photography: Ashley D Photography // planning + design: Naturally Yours Events // venue: Chicagoland, Cary, Illinois // florals: Field & Florist // dress: Anthropologie // bow tie: Fox & Brie // hair + makeup: Debra Petrielli Freelance Hairstylist + Makeup Artist // paper goods: Meghan Flow of Two Little Birds Press // furniture rentals: Shadow Box Dreams Vintage Rentals // tabletop rentals: Nimble Well // s’mores bar marshmallows + caramels: Katherine Anne Confections // cake: Elysia Root Cakes

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Eclectic Garden Party Wedding: Erin + Greg

bride and groom

Erin + Greg reside in NYC, but all of Erin’s family live in Sydney. Globally, California was a middle ground, so it seemed like the perfect place for them to host their wedding! When they found Beltane Ranch in Glen Ellen, they knew they’d struck gold. It served as a home base for all of the guests who had traveled in from so far to be there + provided a breathtaking backdrop for a beautiful garden party style celebration. Their day was filled with a lot of love and some truly gorgeous + inventive details. Two of my personal faves? The hand-dyed indigo placemats and that incredible, winding reception table, reminiscent of a huge Thanksgiving table! Wait until you see it :) Here’s more from Greg about the inspiration behind the day:

We have an aversion to stuffiness but still wanted our wedding to feel like a wedding. Being outdoors the whole time made the most sense for us. It ended up being the perfect mix of big Italian dinner and garden party. The nature of the place brought together our friends and family perfectly. We wanted to create a moments that always felt comfortable and magical.

Big thanks to Delbarr Moradi for the stunning photography + to Sitting in a Tree for the super fun event design. And Erin + Greg, congratulations + thanks for sharing your day with us!

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bride getting ready

bride getting ready

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The hanging flowers helped create a pretty, romantic ceremony backdrop without distracting from the natural beauty of the landscape…

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ceremony

ceremony

ceremony

ceremony

The ceremony was an emotional whiteout. It was amazing. We asked our friends to play guitar for us as we walked down the aisle. That felt really natural. We hadn't seen each other until that moment. That was intense and wonderful. We also decided to take our vows very seriously. If you don't, it's just another party. It felt right to make those big promises in front of everyone we loved.

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ceremony

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bride and groom

bride and groom

bride and groom

cocktail hour

cocktail hour

bar

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The long winding table was such a unique touch and really created a cozy + festive setting for Erin + Greg’s 100 guests. I seriously love it!

zig zag tables

indigo place mats

tall skinny candles


And Brown Paper Design totally nailed it with the floral design! Erin + Greg wanted to incorporate a strong jewel-tone color palette and an earthy, bohemian vibe, so blooms in varying shades of red, pink + fuchsia were housed in vintage  brass + wood vessels. Hostess Haven‘s playful napkins + glassware completed the look in such a fun way!

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blue glasses

cherries

blue glasses


Whimsical menus, made by Mr. Boddington’s Studio, adorned each place setting.

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indigo place mats

gold tin vase

colored glasses

silverware

peonies

silverware

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reception

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bride and groom

cafe lights

Know the order - first you need your venue, hotels and dates to make the invite, and then start thinking about music, food, flowers, color of napkins, everything else. Google drive, Pintrest and email chains are your tools of trade - use shared documents to get everyone on the same page. Don't remake decisions you've already made - the more you rethink things, the more annoyed everyone gets. A wedding planner is cheaper than a marriage counselor - our planner helped us find so many amazing people/vendors and helped with the tiebreakers. Ask for help from your friends and family - give them little things that make your life easier and include them in the process. Make a list of what's most important to you - unless you have unlimited money you're gonna have to compromise on a few things, and that's totally ok. That said... fight for what you really want - often "no" is the first answer not the final one. And expect your husband to help - there's nothing lamer than someone who doesn't care about their own wedding.

photography: Delbarr Moradi // venue: Beltane Ranch Glen Ellen, California // event planning + design: Sitting in a Tree // floral design: Brown Paper Design // wedding dress: Jenny Packham // shoes: Christian Louboutin // groom suit: Freeman’s Sporting Club // paper goods: Mr. Boddington’s Studio // catering: The Girl and the Fig // music: Austin Hendrix Productions // rentals: One True Love Vintage Rentals // tabletop rentals: Hostess Haven

This wedding features rad artists fromThe GWS Wedding Artist GallerySitting in a Tree is a Featured Artist in the GWS Artist Guide! Find more rad artists for your day in our Gallery
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